Find love, keep love, make love.

Intimacy-informed dating coaching for women who want to find their happily-sexually-ever-after.

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Get my 28-page Sex Toy Guide!

Choosing a sex toy can be an overwhelming experience whether you are a first-timer or an aficionado! I’ve made a totally free sex toy guide to make your shopping experience easier. You’ll learn:

  • How to distinguish between safe and unsafe sex toys

  • The major types of sex toys inside every adult shop

  • How to choose the perfect sex toy to meet your needs

  • A step-by-step checklist to help you shop both in-store and online

  • And much more!

Read the Pleasure Blog!

A safe place to help you live your happily sexually ever after.

What it’s like to work with me:

  • “Elaine was amazing at listening and providing a space for me to open up.

    She helped me reframe my definition of sex and gave me some new ideas and my wife and I have a MUCH healthier sex life for it but also our relationship has deepened as it is a more intimacy focused connection.”

    — Sex Coaching Client (35 M)

  • “I felt lost and overwhelmed about what my first steps were into bdsm and what the rules were.

    I would tell you go for it. If you get nothing out of this but a better understanding of what you want is better than not knowing yourself and body.

    10 out of 10 recommend people who want help working through sex and bdsm. “

    -Sex Coaching Client (F)

  • “After my first session with Elaine, I finally felt heard. I finally felt someone listened to me and understood completely what I was feeling.

    I also felt safe talking about some very personal issues as there was no judgment.

    Even when you think you don't have time or deserve time to work on yourself, I promise you that it's worth it. I wish I would have done this sooner.”

    -Sex Coaching Client (F)

  • “Changes happened so quickly with Elaine that I couldn’t believe they had been so achievable.

    Now I feel like the sky is the limit!”

    -Dating Coaching Client (F)

  • “You taught me many things and techniques to help me improve my life and be a better version of myself.

    Your love towards your work is something that can’t be appreciated in words.

    I’ll always be grateful for what you have done for me.”

    -Sex & Dating Coaching Client (M)

How We Can Work Together

Sex, dating, and relationships are all intertwined. That’s why my unique approach involves all three. Whether you’re in a relationship already, seeking a partner, or somewhere in a situationship, I’ll help you achieve your goals. 

Dating Profile
Makeover

Get the matches you deserve.

A perfect one-off if you’re fed up with writing and rewriting your dating profiles constantly.

With professional guidance and help you’ll showcase all of your best assets in just 60 minutes!

  • Attract quality matches with a professionally curated bio

    Get him to message you by answering all the questions *just* right

    Get more matches by choosing your best photos

    Prevent catfish by learning how to read between the lines

    Break the “something casual” cycle by learning how to ask for what you want from the right guy

Advanced Sexuality Classes

Sex they’ll never forget.

A significant part of sex coaching is learning different skills to have the best sex possible. I offer many in-person in Sydney, Australia as well as online! These sex classes are ideal for hen's dos, stag dos, wine nights, or any adults-only event.

  • Glowjob class 90-minutes

    Cunnilingus class 90-minutes

    BDSM basics 90-minutes

    Sex toys 101 2 hours

    Sexpert training 3 sessions 2 hours each

    How to build the perfect dating profile in 90 minutes

    Sex and sexual health 101 for people from developing nations (Only offered in English at this time)

Private Coaching
Sessions

Support for you (and your boo).

Feeling shy or apprehensive about sharing your dating goals with others? Just want a little personal support? No wait list needed here! I offer 1:1 coaching for individuals and 2:1 coaching for couples for sex, dating, and relationship support. 

  • Women’s issues with desire, orgasm, painful sex, body image, and kink exploration

    Men’s issues with erections, ejaculation, porn, desire, and kink exploration

    Everyone’s issues with mismatched sexual desire, sexual exploration, and advanced sexuality education

You deserve the best.

Let me help you find it.

You deserve the best.

Let me help you find it.

You deserve the best. Let me help you find it. You deserve the best. Let me help you find it.

Dating & Relationship Coach, Certified Sexologist, Pleasure Product Guru

Girl, have I been where you are now. Tired of swiping, exhausted from dating, and worn down by shitty situationships. Yes, it's part of the journey, but it really doesn't have to be.

Hi, it's me, Elaine, and I'm here to help you with the three most challenging things in life:

Dating, sex, and relationships.

I can help you find the answers.

Together, we're going to make a map of your future. Not just this fabulous mystery man you have yet to meet but a step-by-step plan on how to get there. We'll make a self-confidence-boosting-closet-emptying-break-down-shake-you-up best self plan!

My 5 part formula for dating confidently and with purpose has worked for countless women before you, and it’ll work for you too!

You don't have to do it alone.

I've got you.

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