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How to Perform Cunnilingus | Cunnilingus tips, tricks, and techniques you need to know

Cunnilingus has gone from an unspoken pastime to the front page of every magazine. But most people struggle to understand how to give the best oral sex to a woman. The female gentiles have long been regarded as a mysterious zone without a surefire way to pleasure it. It is personal to each vulva owner. If you’re wondering how to perform cunnilingus, I’ll tell you all of the areas you need to learn how to tempt with your tongue.

Female oral pleasure shouldn't be a mystery. It should be part and parcel of every sexual encounter and experience.

Why?

Let me tell you why.

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Still Struggling to Have the Big O? - Female masturbation advice from a sexologist

Masturbation is vital for your mental, emotional, and physical health.

Masturbation is the act of exploring your body and what sensations you enjoy.

It's meant to be a pleasure-filled experience focused on the journey, not the destination.

Too many people concentrate on the orgasmic aspect of masturbation. That's just a single second.

The whole experience is meant to bring pleasure and intimate personal knowledge.

This female masturbation guide is designed, so you can explore your body and your sensuality.

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Beyond the G-spot - The 4 deep vaginal erogenous zones and how to find them

So many vulva-owners only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. While this is entirely normal, perhaps some more experimentation could be beneficial. Your deep vaginal erogenous zones may help you experience penetrative orgasmic pleasure.

Learning where each of these zones is will give your solo-sex and lovemaking a new kind of depth.

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How Important is the Clitoris? What you don’t know will surprise you

The clitoris is commonly called the female powerhouse of pleasure, which is for many excellent reasons.

The clitoris is found at the top of the vulva, close to where the two lips come together. It is a sensitive area right where your inner vulva lips meet. It is filled with ultra-sensitive nerve endings. This beautiful pleasure button is responsible for 75% of female orgasms. This little nub packs a powerful pleasure punch, but what you see is just the tip of the iceberg.

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