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How to Perform Cunnilingus | Cunnilingus tips, tricks, and techniques you need to know

Cunnilingus has gone from an unspoken pastime to the front page of every magazine. But most people struggle to understand how to give the best oral sex to a woman. The female gentiles have long been regarded as a mysterious zone without a surefire way to pleasure it. It is personal to each vulva owner. If you’re wondering how to perform cunnilingus, I’ll tell you all of the areas you need to learn how to tempt with your tongue.

Female oral pleasure shouldn't be a mystery. It should be part and parcel of every sexual encounter and experience.

Why?

Let me tell you why.

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What is Pleasure Mapping? Unlock the secrets of your erotic identity

Answering the questions "what do you like?" and "what turns you on?" may sound sexy, simple, and straightforward. And to some people, they may be. But deeper desires and new erogenous zones lie all over your body, waiting to be tapped into and discovered. Whether it's the touch of a hand, the crack of a whip, or the vibrations of a sex toy, you'll only find out if you try.

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Beyond the G-spot - The 4 deep vaginal erogenous zones and how to find them

So many vulva-owners only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. While this is entirely normal, perhaps some more experimentation could be beneficial. Your deep vaginal erogenous zones may help you experience penetrative orgasmic pleasure.

Learning where each of these zones is will give your solo-sex and lovemaking a new kind of depth.

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