Why You Need to Buy a Penis Ring: What they are and how they help your sex life
Erections are temperamental, to say the least. There are two common complaints among penis owners (hereafter called "men" in this article for brevity.) The first is that they ejaculate too early for their liking. The second most common complaint is that you either can't get or stay hard. Enter the penis ring, also known as a cock ring. These simple, affordable, and reusable devices can help remedy many men's issues with their penis.
I get a lot of questions about penis or cock rings, so today, I’m here to answer your most asked questions.
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What is a penis ring?
While there are many types of penis rings, the most common type available is the silicone penis ring. These stretchy little wonders are designed to either go
A) At the base of your penis
B) Behind the testicles.
When you wear a penis ring, you'll notice a few immediate benefits, such as:
Penis rings make your penis look and feel larger than it already is
Penis rings will reduce the sensitivity of your penis
Penis rings will make your erection rock hard
There are many reasons why you should have a penis ring in your sex toy drawer, but first, let's discuss how they work.
What do penis rings do?
Penis rings are straightforward. They restrict the blood flow out of your penis slightly. Doing this means that your penis will stay harder for longer.
It also helps to reduce how sensitive your penis is during masturbation or intercourse. By reducing the sensitivity of your penis, you'll be able to last longer in bed.
They help you maintain an erection by trapping the blood in your penis. So if you're losing your erection earlier than you'd like, a penis ring is a quick and simple fix!
What are the benefits of using a penis ring?
Penis rings are one of the most straightforward and versatile sex toys on the market for men! There are countless benefits to using a penis ring in your sex life, and a few examples are:
They help you last longer
Since penis rings reduce the blood flow and sensitivity of the penis, you can delay your orgasm longer.
They make your penis look and feel bigger
Penis rings seek to maximize your erection strength with reduced blood flow. You'll have a thicker, potentially longer, and harder penis instantly.
They make your erection harder
Most men want a rock-hard cock every time they have sex, right? Penis rings ensure that you have one of the strongest erections of your life every time.
They can increase the intensity of your orgasm
By removing your penis ring at the last possible second before ejaculation, you'll likely experience a stronger orgasm.
They help you keep an erection
If losing an erection during sex is a concern of yours, then cock rings can help with that! Because they trap the blood in your shaft, they can help you maintain an erection for far longer.
They're a great pair with a penis pump
Penis pumps are designed to help you get an erection, but what happens when you remove the tube? The erection goes away quickly. When you pair a cock ring with the use of a penis pump, you'll find that you're able to not only get an erection but keep it as well.
There are so many reasons why you should have a penis ring in your sex toy collection.
How do I wear a penis ring?
The most obvious way to wear a penis ring is at the base of your penis.
Once you've got an erection, slide the penis ring down onto the base of your penis, close to the testicles.
Be sure to avoid trapping any pubes in the ring! Each little bump and grind will irritate your pubic hair and can lead to pain or loss of erection.
You can also wear a penis ring behind your testicles.
This is best done while you're not erect. Before sexual activities, stretch out your silicone cock ring and slide it over your penis. Then, gently secure it behind the testicles. I suggest putting one ball through at a time. This should be done with patience, care, and concern. If you abruptly let go of the penis ring, you may easily smack yourself.
How do I find the right-size penis ring?
The most common complaint about penis rings it's that they're either too big or too small. I suggest grabbing a variety pack you might find at an adult store.
These variety packs mean you have several sizes to play with and choose from.
The right size penis ring will be comfortable, make your penis look larger, and will only slightly reduce how sensitive your penis is.
It's too tight if you experience:
Pain
Numbness
Tingling
Loss of sensation
Serious discoloration
Finding the right size that works for you takes some trial and error. Luckily they're inexpensive, and most shops will have a demo product for you.
How long can I wear a penis ring?
This is a hotly debated topic. However, most sexologists agree you shouldn't wear a penis ring for over 20-30 minutes.
Wearing a penis ring for too long can result in loss of sensation and sometimes even permanent damage to your most valuable member.
While 20-30 minutes may not seem like a lot right now, you'll feel differently once you've tried the penis ring yourself.
Cock rings as a first sex toy
Cock rings are some of the least intimidating sex toys on the market. They're an ideal entry-level toy for anyone with a penis to try.
You can also get the vibrating variety. These are designed to tickle the entrance of the penis-receiving partner for added sensation across the board!
They're also relatively inexpensive, some costing as little as $5. That makes them somewhat disposable as well. So when you're done, you can toss it or keep it!
How to care for a penis ring
Penis rings are inexpensive, so if you have any doubts, throw them out! But If you want to keep reusing a penis ring, there are a few things you need to know:
Don't store it in a plastic bag - this promotes the growth of mold, bacteria, and viruses.
Do keep it in a fabric bag - A fabric bag or inside a piece of material is a great way to store your cock ring. It is breathable while keeping it relatively protected.
Don't use the same cock ring with multiple partners - if you bought an inexpensive penis ring, odds are it's made from porous materials. So it isn't safe for you to share it with multiple partners.
Do spring for something non-porous if you like it - A cock ring can last for years if you take it as a serious pleasure investment. Look for materials like 100% silicone to thoroughly sanitize it.
Don't put it away right after using it - it also needs to be washed! Simply tossing it in a drawer for another day leaves your body oils and other secretions soaking into the material for god knows how long.
Do wash it before and after use - A simple spray of some sex toy cleaner and a quick rinse, and you're off to the races! Just make sure to do this both before and after you use your penis ring.
Taking care of your penis ring will be worth your time and effort. They can last for years with minimal maintenance!
Sexologist recommended cock rings
Cock rings are all over the place interms of price point, usability and comfort. But I want to recommend some specific cock rings that I have found to be comfortable, versatile, and pleasurable!
Romp’s Juke cock ring - designed with 4 vibrations levels and 6 speeds, this one is simple and hassle free. It’s both waterproof and recharges quickly with a super quiet motor that doesn’t compromise on power. I especially love this product’s price point!
We-Vibe Vector+ - This one is a bit fancier as it also pairs with an app! The Vector is also larger than the Juke, which means it’s ideal for putting behind your testicles. Doing this means an even stronger and bigger erection!
We-Vibe Pivot - If you’re not one for putting a cock ring on before you get hard, then the Pivot may be a better option for you. Featuring a smaller and more discreet clitoral (or sphincter) vibrator, it still doesn’t compromise on power. Again, you also have the app featured with this product so you can control the wearer from anywhere in the world! Or set the cock ring to vibrate to the tune of your favorite song.
Lelo Tor™ 2 - Similar in design to the Pivot, this cock ring doesn’t have the hassel of the app. It features small and discreet buttons on the side so you can control every aspect of both you and your partner’s pleasure. It’s also a bit more flexible so it can fit penises of any size.
Cock rings are not all created equal. Investing in a high-quality, rechargable, and water-proof penis ring will bring immense benefits to your sex life for years to cum (pun intended.)
Conclusion
Of all the sex toys I recommend, I spend the most time discussing cock rings. There are just so few downsides to them! Penis rings are great for helping erection strength and longevity, helping you last longer in bed, and getting that extra girth and length you've been looking for. If you have any issues in the bedroom, the affordable penis ring is the perfect place to start.
“In men the nature of the genital organs is disobedient and self-willed, like a creature that is deaf to reason, and it attempts to dominate all because of its frenzied lusts.”
—Plato
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